Translation and Meaning of: 甘やかす - amayakasu

If you've heard someone talk about "to pamper" in Japanese, you've probably come across the verb 甘やかす (あまやかす). This word carries interesting nuances, from its etymology to everyday use, and that's exactly what we're going to explore here. Besides the basic meaning of "to pamper" or "to spoil," we will understand how the kanjis combine to form this expression, its cultural context, and even tips to memorize it effortlessly. And if you use Anki or another spaced repetition method, get ready for some practical sentences that will boost your studies.

Etymology and Pictogram of 甘やかす

The verb 甘やかす is composed of two kanji: 甘 (あま), which means "sweet" or "indulgent", and やかす, a verbal form that intensifies the action. Together, they paint the picture of someone being treated with excessive "sweetness" — in a figurative sense, of course. The first character, 甘, appears in words like 甘い (amai, "sweet") and 甘える (amaeru, "to depend affectionately"), reinforcing the idea of limitless affection.

Interestingly, the kanji 甘 dates back to ancient China, where its original pictogram represented a mouth (口) with something inside, symbolizing "pleasant taste." Over time, this meaning expanded to include concepts such as "to be gentle" or "to yield," which explains its presence in 甘やかす. It’s no wonder that the Japanese associate "to pamper" with something excessively sweet — almost like cotton candy that, if consumed in excess, spoils the appetite.

Lies in Japanese Everyday Life

In Japan, 甘やかす is frequently used in family or educational contexts, but with a critical connotation. Unlike in Portuguese, where "mimar" can have a loving tone, the Japanese use this verb to warn about negative consequences. For example, saying 子供を甘やかしすぎた (Kodomo o amayakashi sugita) — "spoiled the child too much" — implies that the parents were permissive to the point of harming the child's development.

Another common scenario is in the workplace. A boss who 部下を甘やかす (buka o amayakasu, "coddles the subordinates") may be seen as weak, as they fail to demand the best from the team. This duality between affection and responsibility reflects deep cultural values, such as ganbaru (to strive) and discipline. Therefore, using 甘やかす in Japan goes beyond the act itself: it is a social critique disguised as a verb.

Tips for Memorizing and Curiosities

One foolproof way to fix 甘やかす is to associate it with real situations. Imagine a Japanese grandmother showering her grandson with sweets (甘いもの) until he feels sick — there you have a mental scene that's hard to forget. Another strategy is to create flashcards with sentences like 彼は甘やかされて育った (Kare wa amayakasarete sodatta, "He was spoiled growing up"), highlighting the passive form of the verb.

Now, a linguistic curiosity: in some regional dialects, like that of Osaka, you might hear variations such as あまやかし (amayakashi) used as a noun to describe someone spoiled. And be careful with puns! Playing with 甘やかす and 雨が降る (ame ga furu, "to rain") can lead to hilarious confusions — but that's a topic for another lesson.

Vocabulary

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Verb conjugation of 甘やかす

甘やかします - Polite/modern form
甘やかさせる - causative form
甘やかそう - Potential volitional form
甘やかして - imperative form
甘やかされる - passive form

Synonyms and similar words

甘える (amaeru) - Emotional dependence, enjoying attention and pampering.
甘やかす (amayakasu) - Super protect, excessively pamper someone.
甘くする (amakusuru) - Make something sweeter or more pleasant.
甘やかし (amayakashi) - The act of spoiling or overprotecting.
甘やかさない (amayakasanai) - Do not pamper, do not overprotect.
甘やかしすぎる (amayakashisugiru) - Over-indulging, going beyond the limit in protecting or pampering.